Senin, 14 Mei 2012

Before you say I DO



Dealing with marry? Should a marry start with an agreement? It seems like silly question for several spouses. However a marriage is sacral thing in human life and anyone want end their marriage till their die. Many couples in abroad agree with the agreement before marriage. They have an agreement for their marriage future .they want to protect their property, having plan for their marry future and plan for their financial matter. In other words having prenuptial is look like having a sketch before build a house. When you are ready to marry having prenuptial is a good way to plan your party future.

Firstly, by having a prenuptial you can plan your marriage financial. In prenuptial you will tell about financial expectations after wedding and what should you and your fiancé do after it? A good prenuptial will spell out about your assets. Your properties which get before marriage will be yours or it account as family assets. So when you divorce, it can eliminate battles among you and your spouse about the finance and the properties. In other condition, it is easy for us to take care about children finance after divorce. However, because in the prenuptial they tell about the properties and the finance, your partner will think that you will tell lie about it. It is hard to get the trust of your partners because the future of his/ her properties if you divorce.

Another advantage of having a prenuptial is the financial of your children. You can protect your children finance from the previous marriage by having a prenuptial. Several marriages have a problem with the children finance from the previous marriage because their new partners do not want account it as their responsibility. By having prenuptial you protect your children finance. In addition if your spouse does not want to sign the agreement before wedding, you should solve it before wedding. It may be your spouse does not want to account the finance of your children from the previous marriage as your responsibility or your partner does not want to accumulate his/ her properties after
marriage as family properties. In contrast having a prenuptial means you are having unromantic marriage, because you start it with an agreement. A marriage should start with love not an agreement that show you try to anticipate of being divorce. However a marriage should have commitment and hold tight by a love. Marriage does not period of life which tight by a piece of paper that mention your properties and finance.


Prenuptial is common thing in America and Europe. Spouse makes a deal with their marriage. Before start their wedding they begin to think about the future life of marriage. Planning the finance, properties, children, die and divorce is common spells in prenuptial. However by having prenuptial it means your marriage lack of romance and lack of trust. A marriage life is controlled by the spouse not by the agreements. Having a prenuptial does not mean a couple anticipating divorce and break the sacral of being marry.

Selasa, 05 Januari 2010


I can believe my vacation is almost over. I spent my vacation in my hometown, Bukittinggi. I went to Big Ben named Jam Gadang, Panorama, Japan Tunnel, Fort De Cock, and Sianok Canyon. It was a historical town beside it was also known home town of several Indonesian heroes such as Bung Hatta and H. Agus Salim. I got knowledge about the historical of Japan Colonization and how cruel the Japan Government to our people in Japan Tunnel. In my home town, you can try many spicy food such as Nasi Kapau, Pangek Ikan, Samba Lado, Tambunsu, and Dendeng Batokok. If you want to try to spend your next vacation in my home town, I will treat you and be your guide. I am looking forward to seeing you soon.
Love, Viny

my new life....

i know because of my father i can life and know how beautiful is this life. but one thing for sure because of my mom i can survive......my life just for her....i do all the best to make her happy...i don't want see her sad face.mom i'll make your dream come true.....i hope i can make your dream come true before the end of your life......mom...sometimes i want to stop from my school...i want looking for a job...but when i see your face at the moment when i told you i passed my spmb your so hapyy...i dont want broke your imagination about my future lfe...i will be done what do yo need although i have to throw away my dream...
luv you mom.....

Selasa, 03 November 2009

survive

ketika semuanya mulai berubah...ketika kewibawaan dlm pencarian,,,ketika kewibawaan tu diharapkan....
bkan tu yg dicari...biarkan dia berkembang,,biarkan dia going d flow....g hrz kita hrz so' wibawa...lo pkir t bkin org2 sgan ma lo????????/////ta'i lo........yg da org2 jijai lht lo........ngaca dunk,,...tampang lo g cakep2 mat,,...dbwah rata2 malahan......ngaca dlu dunk,......

Jumat, 23 Oktober 2009

Rabu, 21 Oktober 2009

thiz my life

gila....masa' mo pulkam ja ga bleh...teganya kluarga w....
tp bener jga,,,...pulkam btuh biaya,,....i must survive........this my life......my dream willbe come true......