Before you say I DO

Dealing with marry? Should a marry start with an agreement? It seems like silly question for several spouses. However a marriage is sacral thing in human life and anyone want end their marriage till their die. Many couples in abroad agree with the agreement before marriage. They have an agreement for their marriage future .they want to protect their property, having plan for their marry future and plan for their financial matter. In other words having prenuptial is look like having a sketch before build a house. When you are ready to marry having prenuptial is a good way to plan your party future.

Firstly, by having a prenuptial you can plan your marriage financial. In prenuptial you will tell about financial expectations after wedding and what should you and your fiancé do after it? A good prenuptial will spell out about your assets. Your properties which get before marriage will be yours or it account as family assets. So when you divorce, it can eliminate battles among you and your spouse about the finance and the properties. In other condition, it is easy for us to take care about children finance after divorce. However, because in the prenuptial they tell about the properties and the finance, your partner will think that you will tell lie about it. It is hard to get the trust of your partners because the future of his/ her properties if you divorce.

Another advantage of having a prenuptial is the financial of your children. You can protect your children finance from the previous marriage by having a prenuptial. Several marriages have a problem with the children finance from the previous marriage because their new partners do not want account it as their responsibility. By having prenuptial you protect your children finance. In addition if your spouse does not want to sign the agreement before wedding, you should solve it before wedding. It may be your spouse does not want to account the finance of your children from the previous marriage as your responsibility or your partner does not want to accumulate his/ her properties after
marriage as family properties. In contrast having a prenuptial means you are having unromantic marriage, because you start it with an agreement. A marriage should start with love not an agreement that show you try to anticipate of being divorce. However a marriage should have commitment and hold tight by a love. Marriage does not period of life which tight by a piece of paper that mention your properties and finance.


Prenuptial is common thing in America and Europe. Spouse makes a deal with their marriage. Before start their wedding they begin to think about the future life of marriage. Planning the finance, properties, children, die and divorce is common spells in prenuptial. However by having prenuptial it means your marriage lack of romance and lack of trust. A marriage life is controlled by the spouse not by the agreements. Having a prenuptial does not mean a couple anticipating divorce and break the sacral of being marry.